life itself cant give you joy,
unless you really will it,
life just gives you time and space,
its up to you to fill it..

It is a common human tendency to blame. Blame others for all the wrong has transpired in your life, blaming your teachers if you flunk any exam, blaming the system if you don’t get you work done, and most of all..blaming destiny if you don’t get what you feel you deserved..and I say this with conviction because I too keep doing this..and why just me..everyone likes to think that all his failures came about as a consequence of his victimization at the hands of his destiny..

But reading the above lines , Iam forced to introspect and realize…....that the approach I follow is erroneous...these lines strike a cord so instantly as they make me realize the surreal truth..that we spend so much of our time trying to hold our destiny responsible..that we fail to realize that it is up to us to make champions out of ourselves..I speak for myself….and I confess that I attribute my failures to my destiny most of the time..but I fail to realize that it was me who erred..I got an opportunity…but I screwed up..how many time do we admit that.??.hardly ever.!!.and that is what leaves us at where we started from..at the point zero... because we have erred but learned nothing from it..not because there was nothing to be learned but because we failed to admit that we made a mistake..we were too busy blaming others for our failures to realize that the fault is within us..

As humans ..we are the favorite children of god..because he has provided us the perfect tools for enriching our lives..our brain, our hands and our will power..but how many times do we put these into proper use..how many times do we exercise our will to its maximum level..or even try to....the answer is same..hardly ever..!! So why to blame Him for opportunities that we could never cash in..or mistakes that we never learned from...I understand ..it is all too preachy and apparently obvious …but the fact is that it is this obvious fact that we fail to take into account and keep treading the same path of making mistakes and never learning from them….and eventually are led to believe that we are not just “ destined to be successful”..